How do you recognize someone being negative in your space? And by space I mean polluting your aura. How do you deal with negativity? What are your ways to keep you through gloominess?
There are days when you do feel positive despite being everything bad. And in that moment you feel powerful for changing things around you. Yes that change is you and your inner power, the voice – that says you are the driving force that can lead from bad times to good too.
The positive in you speaks that you have gone through enough darkness in the past you can pass this one too. We all can recognize the gut feelings, about the situation we can go through if we pay attention to them.
Even with such situation we stay positive, yet there are people surrounding us will affect our aura and try to doom our motivation. People might not know the things they see impossible or bad, the other person has a different perspective to that situation.
So it’s kind of important to protect yourself from negative thoughts and create your positive aura around you.
I am not denying that everybody has a positive and negative side to what they see, hear or feel. But the important factor here is to consider how you feel for that particular situation and the way you want to react for the situation present in front of you!!
The good and bad goes hand in hand, it depends on you and your view to the situation how you want to persuade it. We humans need to understand that it’s the circumstances that make people do things which are not likeable. Though it does not give them license to go for bad deeds but yes beyond some limits you might feel enough is enough and you do need to get rid of these dark negative energies
So what do we do when there are people around you have toxic vibes and aren’t going away? Well we can of course take measures to clear our aura and stay positive despite border being negative.
The first step to deal with the situation is to identify the pessimist people around you, in order to stop believing their negative talk and find ways you find positive.
Signs of a pessimist
So here are some common signs that you will find in negative people. This is not to get scare about because anyways negative people are all around you. So let’s have a look on signs.
They say it’s too good to be happening
Negative people would not believe that good things can happen to people especially in their surroundings, they think only famous /rich people might want in life.
Judging others constantly rather than improving their performance
So these people have a common habit to judge what people are up to, I believe there are two reasons to this either to gossip and create negativity or to see where they can give suggestions we should not be taking that particular action because they do not feel it’s right in their mind. It’s like they are eager to cut our lines rather than extending their lines.
Jealously of other’s who are ahead of them
Negative people often feel envious when they are not given priority and for that cause other are getting chance to go ahead, they do not see that the other person is way working hard since a long time to get that promotion or any other good chance..
Find compliments rude
There is a vicious cloud in the mind of negative people if you observe they think people are always talking about them and even when being complimented they find it might be some joke to get them- which is not true.
Focusing on problems rather than finding the solutions
It’s easy to find solution when we have a problem, rather than stretching it and having discussions again and again- that would not change the situation but many people do not get that simple thing.
Trouble maintaining relationships
Pessimist people will always find difficulty in maintaining their relationships because of their attitude towards situation and life, they are not lost cause but it’s just matter to change their perspective towards life to change their lives.
Finds obstacles impossible to overcome
there are obstacles in every human’s life and each one of them have to deal with their own. They are given as our ability to solve, so it’s kind of unfair to compare others problems with ours because it would not be same. So instead of comparing it we can believe in ourselves that we can overcome the situation because it’s specifically designed for us to overcome our fear or any obstacle…
So after we identify the people disturbing our aura, we can make some changes in our day to day life so that this negativity does not affect us
How to keep yourself from negative people?
As pessimist people are clear by not going anywhere, leaving us from their spooky thought system. So let’s build a wall of positive thoughts around us.
Focus on you energy
It’s not in our hands to control others, so it’s kind of better that we keep up our energy high and deal with our issues. We might come across solutions we are looking for!
Find solution to your problems
Each being are being tested by obstacles according to their understanding like math problems in class. We have to find answers to our problems by ourselves, and by discussing it with negative people will raise doubts on you might not be able to overcome the barrier. So it’s better to keep it from them.
Stop trying to fix other’s broken wing
It’s not our job to fix other people’s mindset too!! Many of us are usually on a mission to help people with their issues, it’s quite noble… yet there are some who would point you for being good. Such a thing will waste your energy and positive vibe. It’s sometimes better to keep some news to ourselves be it good to be shared.
Maintain your peace
Nobody is more important than you and your piece of mind. Never compromise on your mental well-being. Draw boundaries on where to stop people from entering your positive vibe.
Avoid people getting in your head
There are 7.8 billion people around the world, everyone has their own views, opinions, and you may want to listen to it but always do what you feel right through your inner-feelings.
No matter what people say you can always have a choice to listen to your inner-feelings and you can respond however you want to because it’s your life, your situation and your obstacle to deal with…
Do not let other people’s thought get in your head it’s their view not yours…
It’s time to be happy for yourself 🙂
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